The Causes of Narcissistic Personality Disorder
From: http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/how-does-narcissistic-personality-disorder-develop
It is generally accepted that narcissistic personality disorder tendencies may manifest as a result of defunct parenting. Narcissistic tendencies can develop as a result of very low emotional intelligence operating within a family dynamic. If emotional support is non-existent and especially if replaced with abuse or abandonment, the child who becomes narcissistic may decide ‘It is too painful to be open and vulnerable and suffer the agony of being discarded or abused’ and will bury his or her ‘True Self’ to create a ‘False Self’ who is full of defenses and pathologies in order to survive.
Sadly this creates a condition of 'separation' whereby the narcissistic child feels unsupported, and having to pit his or her will against others. This perception is the very root of the 'me versus you' condition inherent in individuals who suffer from narcissistic personality disorder.
Sometimes the role model of a narcissistic parent may have a large impact in regard to teaching aggression, judgment, entitlement, chauvinism, cruelty and other assorted narcissistic behaviors to children, who absorb these behaviors as 'normal' or even 'admirable.'
This will be especially true if the narcissistic parent chose a particular child as the 'extension of self'' used to create extra ammunition, pain and fear against the narcissistically abused spouse or love partner.
The other components, which may manifest narcissistic tendencies within children, are excessive entitlement with very few boundaries and an absence of accountability. If a child does not learn healthily the meaning of the word 'no', or that he or she will not suffer the consequences of poor choices and actions, narcissistic tendencies are almost guaranteed.
As a result the child may develop the narcissistic tendencies of believing he or she is omnipotent, entitled to everything he or she desires, and become a law unto self, who can do whatever he or she wishes regardless of the consequences.
It is generally accepted that narcissistic personality disorder tendencies may manifest as a result of defunct parenting. Narcissistic tendencies can develop as a result of very low emotional intelligence operating within a family dynamic. If emotional support is non-existent and especially if replaced with abuse or abandonment, the child who becomes narcissistic may decide ‘It is too painful to be open and vulnerable and suffer the agony of being discarded or abused’ and will bury his or her ‘True Self’ to create a ‘False Self’ who is full of defenses and pathologies in order to survive.
Sadly this creates a condition of 'separation' whereby the narcissistic child feels unsupported, and having to pit his or her will against others. This perception is the very root of the 'me versus you' condition inherent in individuals who suffer from narcissistic personality disorder.
Sometimes the role model of a narcissistic parent may have a large impact in regard to teaching aggression, judgment, entitlement, chauvinism, cruelty and other assorted narcissistic behaviors to children, who absorb these behaviors as 'normal' or even 'admirable.'
This will be especially true if the narcissistic parent chose a particular child as the 'extension of self'' used to create extra ammunition, pain and fear against the narcissistically abused spouse or love partner.
The other components, which may manifest narcissistic tendencies within children, are excessive entitlement with very few boundaries and an absence of accountability. If a child does not learn healthily the meaning of the word 'no', or that he or she will not suffer the consequences of poor choices and actions, narcissistic tendencies are almost guaranteed.
As a result the child may develop the narcissistic tendencies of believing he or she is omnipotent, entitled to everything he or she desires, and become a law unto self, who can do whatever he or she wishes regardless of the consequences.
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