Is Umar Johnson a Collapsing Narcissist?

What is a collapsed narcissist?

Narcissistic collapse happens when a person who has narcissistic personality disorder becomes unable to uphold their grandiose, confident image due to a perceived fatal blow to their reputation (for example, having a child expose his negative behaviors).

What are the behaviors of a collapsing narcissist?

  1. Angry outbursts
  2. Irritable or defensive behavior
  3. Verbal or physical aggression
  4. Vindictive behaviors

Exhibit One through Four

Umar Johnson is displaying each of the behaviors described in the section above all in one video.  


A collapsed narcissist is what happens when a narcissist's carefully constructed facade come crashing down.  They, as a result, become an emotional wreck and find it difficult to maintain their usual persona.  This can come from being publicly exposed, rejected, or faced with a major life failure.  

Since the only way they have to validate themselves is externally, because they don't have healthy coping mechanisms, they are unable to take the hit like a normal person might, learn from their mistakes, and move forward.

One behavior is that they engage in are uncontrollable rage (using this as a way to regain their perceived power) when they see their manipulations don't work.  Other behaviors might be deep depression, self-pity, posing themselves as a victim, substance abuse, reckless behavior or complete isolation.

Have we seen examples of Umar Johnson exhibiting at least some of the behaviors described above?

I'll wait...

What's so sad about this is that without their supply of admiration and ability to control and manipulate others, they are empty shells.  However, instead of learning from mistakes and trying to do better, they will double down on the manipulative tactics or sink further into bitterness and self-destruction.

It appears that Umar has chosen to double down on the manipulative tactics.

In fact, Umar Johnson actually threatened the mother of his 13-year-old daughter by making demands to see his daughter unsupervised or be "exposed."  If there is indeed supervised visitation, i.e. he has to sit on the grandmother's couch to see his child, that is likely court-ordered.  And if this arrangement is indeed court-ordered, no amount of screaming and threatening on the Internet is going to change that.




If he wants to see his 13-year-old daughter, all he has to do is sit on the grandmother's couch.  Just like all he had to do is give his oldest daughter contact information for her siblings, if he had it.

Had he done these things, he wouldn't be in the situation.

But I don't feel sorry for this fool because he created the situations that he is complaining about.


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