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Getting Inside The Head Of The Abusive Personality

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From: http://www.powercommunicating.com/articles/Getting%20Inside%20The%20Head%20Of%20The%20Abusive%20Personality.pdf Let’s get inside the head of the abusive mentality. But first let’s define abuse. Abuse in a relationship reflects a pattern(s) of behavior that is manifestly (or passive-aggressively) bullying , demeaning , manipulative , intimidating , threatening , coercive , and/or restrictingly controlling. The key word is pattern . Most non-abusive individuals perpetrate insensitivities from time to time that may be experienced as abusive. This may make the behavior abusive. But it is the pattern of behaviors that makes the individual abusive. What do we know about abusive personalities? We (know) that they are controlling . Then again, aren’t most of us controlling at times? Sometimes very? What, then, separates your garden variety controlling personality from an abusively controlling personality? The answer, fundamentally, is motive.   Where the motive is to co...

When You Know You're On Point and for YOUR PEOPLE...

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Well, I'm going to take a self-congratulatory moment. Your girl, Trueblackanonymous has garnered a following and I thank all of you for this. And, yes, I have reason to believe that the man, Umar Johnson, himself, is paying attention to this blog.  And, if he is, I thank him because that let's me know that I'm on point. So, yes, I'm going to pop my collar! But only for a minute. Why only for a minute? Because the true purpose of this blog is not to say 'I told you so.'  The true purpose of this blog is to educate the people about Umar Johnson. Truth be told, I have no personal beef against the man himself. Truth be told, I could give less than a damn about Umar Johnson, Umar Abdullah-Johnson, Prince of Pan Africanism, Jermaine Shoemake, P.O.P.A, King Kong of Consciousness, the New Marcus Garvey, the new Frederick Douglass, or whatever he calls himself today . What my real concern is, what I really give a damn about is my people. My peopl...

Haters Keep Hating...

You know, those haters really are good at hating.  The 'haters' seem to be especially good at hating on Umar Johnson.  Those haters just won't stop, according to Umar Johnson.  According to Umar: "For every detractor or hater that I have I still have a million people who support my work, not just nationally but internationally...But the detractors are more active than the supporters are.  The supporters just lay back and watch.  And the detractors are getting very aggressive in getting their message out..." Trueblackanonymous is not a hater, but I thank you, Umar, for noticing my work!  Well, now, it wouldn't be Umar unless there is a sprinkling of his narcissism .  Umar doesn't disappoint.  He says... "One of the things that the detractors haven't yet understood is that my influence and my reach and my support and my work isn't limited to Black consciousness.  So the whole YouTube movement, the whole Facebook movement, the whol...

S/He's an Agent...

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I've been studying the idea that someone is an agent for disagreeing with someone or having a personal issue with someone. For example, Khym Ringgold, was accused of being an agent, because she revealed that she had engaged in a sexual relationship with Umar Johnson. That made me laugh because the fact that Umar Johnson was engaging in a sexual relationship wasn't a big deal to me.   Further, I would be willing to bet that no federal agency would give a damn about Umar Johnson, who claims he wants to create a school for black boys, having sex with a blond wig-wearing woman who is also a stripper. What caught my attention is that Umar lied about engaging in sex and that he chose to engage with a woman who seemed to embody the very things he was preaching against.  That makes him a liar and a hypocrite, not the mark of a true leader.  It also makes him no more or less of a hypocrite than a pastor of a church who is sleeping with half of the congregation.  No fede...

My Head is Spinning...

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Hold on! Wait a minute! Do my eyes deceive me? *MY HEAD IS SPINNING* Is this the so-called "Doctor" of psychology, Umar Johnson, in the Shrine of the Black Madonna in Detroit, shouting out "Doctor" Dwight York, also known as Malachi Z. York, Issa Al Haadi Al Mahdi, and Dr. York.  This man, who was charged and convicted of 40 counts of child molestation , among other charges, is getting a shout-out from "Doctor" Umar Johnson. *MY HEAD IS SPINNING* Well. It seems that according to this video, Umar was "building with the Gods" and was grateful for the security services of the Detroit Nuwabians . *MY HEAD IS SPINNING* Then... Umar shouts out this "Doctor" York, who he says is to be released from prison soon, after serving time for CHILD MOLESTATION .  Umar gives respect to this elder , a convicted child molester. Okay. *MY HEAD IS SPINNING* But, recently, supposedly at a lecture at a church in Brooklyn, NY, (wh...

It Doesn't Add Up

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Something just isn't adding up here. What do I mean? Well, let's see... Umar Johnson told Mr. Rock Newman, on the Rock Newman show, that he graduated from Millersville University in 1997, with a Bachelor of Arts degree in psychology and a Bachelor of Science degree in Political Science. Start at 9 minutes and 52 minutes and stop at 10 minutes and 10 seconds If this is true, then... First Example How could Umar be a therapist for 20 years, as he said in the Solving Deadbeat Daddy and Mama Drama Problems - Dr. Umar Johnson video, that means he would have had to have started his career as a therapist in 1993.  How can this be when Umar supposedly did not earn his bachelor's degree until 1997, when he graduated from Millersville University? Second Example How could Umar be a therapist for 20 years as of February 20, 2015, the date of the video in which he was confronted by a lesbian?  If Umar had been a therapist for 20 years, he would have to have bee...

Words Matter

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Words Matter. Words Matter! WORDS MATTER!! WORDS MATTER !!! WORDS MATTER !!! WORDS MATTER !!! Guess what, y'all? Words matter...especially out of the mouth of a "therapist." One would think that Umar Johnson, a so-called "therapist," would know that. Why would Umar say that  'our daughters' who 'love to be alone with men' "with they hot asses"? And why aren't the MEN in this community calling him out on this mess? Given that, why on God's green earth would Umar Johnson, who is supposedly a therapist, "invent" a "diagnosis" of 'THOT-ish Personality Disorder' -- yes, Umar's exact words -- to describe the behavior of a victim of sexual assault or sexual abuse. We all know what a 'THOT' is, right?  Well, just in case you don't know, a THOT is an acronym for T hat H oe O ver T here. DOES A REAL THERAPIST SPEAK LIKE THIS? Is this how a therapist speaks ab...